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Someone who struggles with alcohol abuse may have a strong physical desire for alcohol, which can affect the way certain choices are made. Whatever drives a person can take a back seat to satisfy his desire for alcohol, and that includes being honest. Spouses, families, friends, religion, and a career can be overshadowed by the desire to drink alcohol more frequently which means everyday, and also increasing in the amount of alcohol consumed. Lying to get more alcohol is just one reason why someone who deals with alcoholism is no longer telling the truth. Knowing the motivation behind dishonesty helps family members understand the addiction a little and what is happening in the minds of their addicted relatives, and how to respond to them appropriately.
Honesty and Alcohol Abuse Disorders
When an individual struggles with alcohol abuse or alcoholism lying becomes the standard to a double life they live. Life is presented to others such as their family, their friends, the community where they live with complex lies to stay one step ahead of their addiction to alcohol being discovered. But perhaps the biggest lie someone says with alcohol abuse disorder is that no one really knows the truth and that alcohol is a very strong force. Here are some reasons for their lies:
Maintaining an Addiction – Because drinking and acquiring more alcohol are the two most important things in the life of an alcoholic, they will do anything to maintain their addiction. The logic is the opposite: they need alcohol and lies to prevent people from holding them accountable so they can continue to use their drug of choice, alcohol. Lying is the only way to maintain their current way of life.
Avoid the Reality of Life – An individual who has an alcohol use and abuse disorder requires them to invent a reality where they do what others want and hope them to do. But, in fact, no significant changes occur in their life. They need lies to please those who care for them and to be calm, because actually they are still drinking and will eventually lose everything they have, and may even include their life.
Avoiding Confrontation with People and Situations – It is normal for relatives of individuals who are addicted to alcohol to sit and do nothing. The family or friends will ask questions about the drinking and get very angry with the individual if the answer is not what they want to hear. Pressure from these conflicts with every interaction continues to make the lies flow to avoid more confrontations. Alcoholics often do not have the skills needed to deal with confrontations in any healthy manner. Instead, they will get anger and then protection mode will kick in, where they will use distraction as a means to draw attention away from them on to other people by showing problems and disagreements of others. The drinking lie helps them avoid confrontations that are almost always ugly and not very productive.
Denial of Addiction – Even, if the evidence on the person’s drinking problem is strong and obvious, that individual who is struggling with the alcohol addiction will deny the drinking and the consequences that follow. They will just reject the evidence because they cannot see any way out of their addiction problem. Although, rejection of the evidence can buy the addicted individual the time they need to process information shared by their relatives. The situation could become dangerous, where the person now believes that their family and friends are now their enemies. The disease of alcoholism uses denial very well to ensure the addicted continues drinking.
Addicted individuals believe that they are different – If an alcoholic realizes that this is a problem, they must tell themselves that they are different and stronger then other people in order to continue using alcohol. “I am not like these people who have problems with alcohol and can’t stop, I can handle alcohol and stop anytime,” is often the answer that allows someone to continue lying and drinking.
Shame and Embarrassment – When the addicted individual gets sober for any short period of time, the memories, the embarrassment, shame, discomfort and regret over their choices in life can be overwhelming. Unable to handle these feelings adequately, they return to alcohol and lie to family, relatives and friends, representing a person far from the truth, not reality.
Because family can – Sometimes friends and family members react to rejection of their own unhealthy answers. Closing their eyes and apologizing for the behavior of addicted loved ones shows that lying is acceptable because the truth is too painful to bear.
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